Seriously. Who determines who is in that group – you know, them? How do you know if you're one of them? Does somebody keep a list? How bad do you have to have it to be one of them?

Or better yet, how good do you have to be to NOT be one of them?

Have you found yourself saying…

• I'm obviously not one of them.
• It's not like that with me.
• I’m better than that.

Many of us have. We gauge our condition based on the lives of others. We compare our marriages to those who are torn apart or our friends to the downtrodden. “At least we aren’t like them,” we say, often in an effort to make ourselves feel a little better.

Pridefully, we reserve a group of those people as the really messed up, as those who aren't strong enough to take care of their lives.

A wise man has said that the weak are indeed strong, and those who think they are strong are actually weak. Which one are you?

We humbly invite you to set aside your perceptions, to spend some time looking through this site reading the stories of others, to ask yourself some tough, honest questions, and to find out how you can experience freedom.

find out what we are and what we're not!